Monday, April 18, 2011

Good weekend!

Just had a great weekend with hubby, which isn't something that has happened in a very long time.  Our anniversary was just the other day, and I suggested we go to a special dinner where there was gourmet food and (lots!) of wine.  Also some great music.  It didn't start until 6:30, so he had all day to get ready: showered, shaved, etc.  I rarely try to do anything with him in the morning anymore, as he often sleeps such crazy hours.   Anyway, it was great, so I will count my blessings, as he is still talking about what a great time he had.  Sugar stayed under control, he didn't get sick, no falling . . . awesome.  Just got to thinking: there haven't been any of those horrible blow-ups in awhile.  Am I just being lucky, or is the anti-anxiety medicine (that he actually kept taking this time) working miracles?  Or do we both need to be "sloshed" on alcohol to have a good time with each other?  I totally get "waiting for the other shoe to drop," but think I'll enjoy the momentum on this while it lasts, whatever the reason.  Whew, wish me luck!

Lilly

3 comments:

  1. Wow, the sleep, the falling, the getting sick...all the worries I have when trying to plan things with my hubby too. Amazing how similar. Oh and anxiety meds, even a very low dose, does me wonders... I am sad I have to resort to them but I waited years before giving in and I am glad I finally did. They make me handle things soooo much easier and with a clearer head. Enjoy the good time while it lasts!!!!! Xoxo

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  2. Lilly,

    I'm so happy you had a good time. This is wonderful news. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!

    Maybe the Stars are in our favor. My DH has been doing well as well.

    Oh the magic of blogging.

    S

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  3. Fabulous!
    we need to treasure the moments when they come
    glad you were able to get some!

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